{"id":368,"date":"2005-10-16T16:21:43","date_gmt":"2005-10-16T14:21:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.kimbervie.nl\/blog\/archives\/368"},"modified":"2025-05-27T21:03:21","modified_gmt":"2025-05-27T19:03:21","slug":"luisteren","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.kimbervie.nl\/blog\/luisteren\/","title":{"rendered":"Luisteren, een gedicht van Leo Buscaglia"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Als ik je vraag naar mij te luisteren<br \/>\nen jij begint mij adviezen te geven,<br \/>\ndan doe je niet wat ik je vraag. <img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.kimbervie.nl\/images\/manoor.gif\" alt=\"Man houdt hand achter oor, is aan het luisteren\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Als ik je vraag naar mij te luisteren<br \/>\nen jij begint mij te vertellen,<br \/>\nwaarom ik iets niet zo moet voelen als ik voel,<br \/>\ndan neem jij mijn gevoelens niet serieus.<\/p>\n<p>Als ik je vraag naar mij te luisteren,<br \/>\nen jij denkt dat jij iets moet doen<br \/>\nom mijn problemen op te lossen,<br \/>\ndan laat je mij in de steek,<br \/>\nhoe vreemd dat ook mag lijken.<\/p>\n<p>Dus, alsjeblieft, luister alleen maar naar me<br \/>\nen probeer me te begrijpen.<\/p>\n<p>En als je wilt praten,<br \/>\nwacht dan even en ik beloof je<br \/>\ndat ik op mijn beurt naar jou zal luisteren.<\/p>\n<p>De tekst is geschreven door Leo Buscaglia, Amerikaans psycholoog (1924 &#8211; 1998).<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Leo_Buscaglia\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Wikipedia over Leo Buscaglia<\/a><\/p>\n<div class=\"fcbkbttn_buttons_block\" id=\"fcbkbttn_left\"><div class=\"fcbkbttn_like fcbkbttn_large_button\"><fb:like href=\"https:\/\/www.kimbervie.nl\/blog\/luisteren\/\" action=\"like\" colorscheme=\"dark\" layout=\"standard\"  width=\"225px\" size=\"large\"><\/fb:like><\/div><div class=\"fb-share-button fcbkbttn_large_button \" data-href=\"https:\/\/www.kimbervie.nl\/blog\/luisteren\/\" data-type=\"button\" data-size=\"large\"><\/div><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Als ik je vraag naar mij te luisteren en jij begint mij adviezen te geven, dan doe je niet wat ik je vraag. Als ik je vraag naar mij te luisteren en jij begint mij te vertellen, waarom ik iets niet zo moet voelen als ik voel, dan neem jij mijn gevoelens niet serieus. 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